I’m a psychologist – how to tell immediately if someone doesn’t like you

Actions speak louder than words.

A psychologist has discovered how you can tell if someone doesn’t like you almost instantly – just based on their body language.

Francesca Tighinean, a US-based Romanian native who studied psychology at City University London, explained five ways you can tell someone you just don’t like them.

In a one-minute TikTok clip uploaded in December. 20, Tighinean details the importance of eye contact, claiming that its absence can be a red flag.

“One, avoiding eye contact,” said the psychologist. “This suggests they are trying to avoid a deeper connection or conversation.”

Another sign to watch out for is tight lips.

“Lip pursing is a nonverbal sign of irritation, stress, or disapproval,” Tighinean added.

You can also tell if someone doesn’t like you when they turn their body or legs away from you during a conversation.

“This may indicate a desire to disengage. They may unconsciously position themselves toward an exit or away from interaction,” she continued.

When you interact with someone and notice their arms crossed, they are setting boundaries.

“Placing objects such as a bag or crossed arms between you can symbolize the need for psychological or physical space,” said the expert.

If the person takes a step back or keeps a visible distance, this may mean that they are uncomfortable around you.

Facial expressions are a big indicator if someone doesn’t like you.

“A lack of genuine smiles or limited facial expressions signals disinterest or a lack of warmth in the interaction,” Tighinean wrote.

Despite the fact that the psychologist is able to determine when someone does not like you, she always knows how to make people like you immediately.

In a resurfaced video, Tighinean lists several ways to become well-liked by your peers, such as asking people to do a simple favor, calling them by their name, and waiting a few seconds before reply to a message because it makes the recipient feel like you’re being careful with your response.

Many people online resonate with the tactic, claiming it helps them become popular.

“The name one works very well [not going to lie]”, the person commented.

“The fact that I do all this without even realizing it,” laughed one TikToker.

“Realizing I’ve done all these things my whole life, that’s why I’m fine with 70% of my city,” added another.