Maybe you don’t have a friend in them.
A content creator has revealed the warning sign of a narcissistic friend, claiming to be as “toxic” as a narcissist.
Tiktokker @beyondthebruise, who uses her experience with domestic violence to educate her internet followers, claimed that narcissists are “a lotter to look” in Platonic relationships than in romantic ones.
“A friend who is a narcissist does not drain you alone, they use you,” she explained in a viral video that marked 967,000 views. “They do everything around them as they give you the absolute minimum naked in return.”
They often “love attention”, prevailing conversations and interrupting people to focus themselves.
When you keep a narcissist in your orbit, everything will feel “like a competition”.
“They can’t just be happy for you, they have to grow you,” she said. “If you get a promotion, they have already done better. If you had a harsh day, they would have a worse day”
She added: “In their minds, every moment is a chance to prove that they are superior.”
A narcissistic friend will also often “disappear when you need more,” she continued.
“They like to be around you when you are fun, when you are successful, when you are helpful, but when you need current support, they fantasize, rest, act like you are a burden,” she said.
If they offer “support”, it is often “back”, it means compliments “will feel like insult in disguise”.
Finally, being friends with a narcissist will often let you feel “drained, not with energy, after spending time with them”.
“A good friendship leaves you to feel first, supported, appreciated, but a narcissistic friendship leaves you exhausted because you have consistently walked in shells or trying to try your value,” she said.
“If you constantly feel used, fired, drained, this is not a friend.”
In the comments, viewers shared their experiences with a narcissistic friend.
“They constantly use you for emotional support, but as a return you hear,” Yes, oh wow, bored, that success, “wrote one person.
“When they know that they make you polluted instead of taking responsibility, they fantasize you, pretend that nothing happened or just made it look like you are responding,” another has led.
“They like to call, they can’t stand any criticism, don’t apologize, if you don’t agree that you are against them, you walk in eggs all the time, they drain your energy and make you paranoid,” someone else commented.
The abundance of narcissistists in the world is enough to make some tiktsers swear by platonic relations.
“I’m making people’s friendships,” a user mounted. “I want to be left alone forever.”
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