Dear Abby: I have been married to my husband for over 20 years. It is mostly very beautiful, though it has generalized anxiety disorder.
In the past, he threatened to kill someone (not me!) As well as himself and had to be hospitalized.
Ninety -nine percent of the time he is friendly and thoughtful, except for one thing: he is not capable of giving love, and we have not had sex in more than a decade.
We have seen many councilors over the years to no avail. We have tried doctors and medications. I prayed, I cried, talked to him and always left single.
I met a young man on the Internet who lives overseas, and was Platonic for two years. Suddenly, realized of Had more than Platonic Feelings for Him.
We started talking about love with each other. No sex was involved, nor have we exchanged discovery photos. (We are both religious.)
I told my husband that I want a divorce because I don’t believe in deceit and I’m completely over it ignoring my needs for so long. My question is, did I wrong? – Making changes in Georgia
Loved by making changes: Because your marriage was not adjustable, you did the right thing by telling your husband you wanted.
However, and you think you know this new, stranger man you have never met is extremely important to move Slowly From here.
There are so many cheat scams and online romances that, honestly, it is scary.
Before making any commitment, romantic or financial, you both have to meet, get to know each other, see how one another lives and how his friends and family are (and vice versa). I wish you luck, but keep your eyes open.
Dear Abby: I’m a divorced single mother who just bought a new home. My 23-year-old daughter returned home from college a few years ago and is refusing to move.
I understand that rent prices are high and she is saving money, but I can’t live with her anymore.
Abby, we have very different lifestyles. My daughter is a slide and refuses to respect my prayers to keep her clean and her bathroom (which is also our guest bathroom). Her room is blown up!
She spends her days sitting around her phone all day. (She has a job, and she is also active in the church.)
How can I make him move instead of flying out of gloves whenever you don’t respect? I just want to live in peace in a regular and regular home. – frustrated in Florida
Dear Irritable: You have my sympathy. Make a quiet conversation with your daughter.
Offer to help her find another place to live and set a date for it to be out. If she still refuses, you may need to start an official expulsion.
Dear Abby was written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby on Dearabby.com or Yes Box 69440, Los Angeles, Ca 90069.
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