Dear Abby: My son of death beating continues to be fired – should I get it off?

Dear Abby: I am blessed with two sounds that live with me. They are in the mid -20th.

The young man is an amazing young man. He is strong, confident, but not stubborn and happy. He is in college, works part -time and plays in a group, among other things.

My eldest son is the opposite. Since he was 16, he has been countless and is (again) currently unemployed. He has been removed from every single job except one.

He always has any excuse to blame others for his failures. He thinks he is smarter than the rest of us, they think he knows better, etc.

I have tried to tell him and tell him that the matter is with him, not his former employers. He refuses to accept responsibility for anything wrong in his life.

I love him but he’s going crazy. I want to help her, but, honestly, I’m on her. I have reached the point where it is difficult to be civilian towards him.

The last time he was out of work the last three months. When I gave a “Drop Dead” date to find a job or I was getting out of the house, miraculously, he found one in the nickname of the time.

We are again at that point again. I hate him, but I need him to run or go out.

No matter what I do, I am the bad guy – to enable him or to force him. I would like some tips. -Mam fed on Florida

Dear Mom: Your son is no longer a child. He has to learn to stand on his two feet. Give him another deadline to find a job or be out under your roof.

As he is employed, tell him what you expect to save enough money for a security deposit in a place to live.

So don’t expect him to like him or be grateful to you who have subsidized him as long as you have. The biggest favor you can give now is a chance to grow.

Dear Abby: My friend has ended our friendship because my husband and I refused to put an end to her friendship with her soon.

All our friends (including her daughters’ men) are supporting her to blame the former, including his labeling an abuser, financial user and narcissist.

I took the time to hear his version of why marriage failed, and is not compatible with its side.

I do not want to end our relationship with him, but my friend is seeking it as a condition for our friendship to continue. Please advise. – conditioned in Colorado

Dear Conditional: Your former friend is caught in the riots of a failed marriage. It is bitter, angry and trying to provide emotional support while at the same time damages it soon.

Now you understand what he may have been facing during their marriage. I hope she succeeds to isolate you, also, from mutual friends.

If it happens, you and your husband should continue to live your live and expand your social circle.

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