Dear Abby: My creepy neighbor entered my house and won’t leave us alone

Dear Abby: I am a 19-year-old boy and live with my parents. We have this neighbor, “Ed”, who, until recently, was friends with my father. We have been hanged with him several times and even spent in each other’s homes to see sports games and eat dinner.

The problem is, Ed has become very predominant and strange. He has always been a little far from the wall, which, at first, we both found funny. But since then, his hateful tongue and his vulgarities have rubbed us wrong. He is disrespectful to his wife and son, who I know is not my business, but Dad and I are on him. Recently, Ed has repeatedly called and writing my father’s text. Now he has begun to send me messages by asking why my dad is not responding. I don’t know how I got my number. Last month, Ed entered our house through our glass sliding door while I was at home just watching TV.

Dad seems to want to ignore the issue, but I think it’s the wrong move. Should I approach this nose and indignant neighbor? – Concerned in Illinois

Dear Concerned: No, it should not. Keep that sliding glass door closed. And, if you get any more text from this man, block it. You are not required to discuss that of your father or change of stay with him.

Dear Abby: My 25-year-old granddaughter is getting married in four months. Five years ago, she lost her father in a tragic accident while her parents were on vacation. Since then, she has gone up to be homosexual and grown closer to me than with her mother (my sister).

I was always close to my sister and both of her daughters as they grew up and helped financially when times were difficult. My sister recently remarried and plans to move to another country with her new husband before the wedding.

My niece has asked me to walk down in the row along with my sister. My sister said she is disrespectful to her as she is the mother. I don’t want to hurt my sister or my niece. My niece says it’s both of us or none. (No grandparents.)

I told her that I want to sit with my husband for the wedding and that her mother had to walk her in line. The other bride’s parents will walk their daughter down the line. I know it’s my granddaughter’s wedding and she has to have what she wants, but I feel stuck in the middle. Any suggestions? – Torn in two in Massachusetts

Dear Torn: I have one. You have already told your niece that you would prefer to sit with your husband than to cause return from your sister.

Your granddaughter feels hard when you walk with her, and it’s her wedding. You may suggest walking halfway down the row and then hand to her mother. But leave the final decision where the beauties – which is with the bride.

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