Dear Abby: My wife drew a weapon over me and stole my money but I want the last one

Dear Abby: My wife and I have not had sex for the last four years. I’m not a perfect man. I’ve made my part of mistakes – not always telling the truth, sending other women’s messages – and she also has her part of imperfections. She has hit me in more than one occasion. She has also attracted a weapon over me and stole $ 1,400. And yet, I find myelf leaving them all aside and moving forward. I love my wife but now I’m at my broken point. Do you have any advice? – At the end of Wits in Texas

Dear End of Surgeling: Because you love your wife and want to stay married, TELL her. While you are in it, offer her the opportunity to work your differences through marriage counseling. If it agrees, it will be a giant jump in the right direction. However, if it does not, for your safety, you both have to break up. The relationship you have described is unstable, unhealthy and uncertain to you.

Dear Abby: I am an elderly woman and have been in a relationship for five months with a widow. His wife died three years ago. He calls me every night, and we see each other three to four times a week. My point is that he is free. He does what I do three times, but only brings me out for grass food foods. I want to say something but I’m not sure how. He’s a great guy besides that, but I don’t want to stay if he doesn’t value me more. Should I tell him that he is too free or just ruins it? – Underestimated in California

Dear underestimated: No, don’t do either. Tell him you feel a constant diet of grass grass is not health and you would like to try something different. Then ask him to make a reservation at a restaurant. If that balks, volunteer that you may probably share the cost. His reaction to this will tell you whether you will stay with him or not.

Dear Abby: My step died tragically this year, hit by a driver while on her morning walk. She leaves behind a man and four children under the age of 18. Their wedding anniversary is coming, and we usually send a card and money. Wauld what would be appropriated for me to do for our mother -in -law? I would like to send a card letting him know I am thinking about it but I do not know the words to say. – Minesota

Dear Darling: Please accept my deepest sympathy for losing your stepmother. Because her husband is a family, I don’t think sending a card would be enough. Get the phone, start a conversation and say it is in your thoughts and your spouse and you want it to know it. Sending an anniversary card to someone whose spouse has recently died may not be as useful as borrowing a ready ear.

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