Dear Abby: My son beat addiction and now behaves like a pompous jerk

Dear Abby: I received a message on Facebook from my first cousin. In it, she apologized for not communicating for the past 10 months. It ended with, “Send me your address so I could send you a birth notice.” Abby, I was not aware that she was pregnant.

I contacted her father, who said the baby was born two months ago. This cousin is not a teenager or unmarried. She is a professional and married.

I am in doubt, not only because it was not said, but mainly because its message did not notify the birth, except referring that a notice would be sent by mail.

Honestly, I am confused and not interested in creating Suddin’s interest in a situation I was expelled from recognition.

I can’t help but assume that the goals of the mail notice is a gift capture, which comes months after the baby’s arrival. Your thoughts? – left in the dark

Dear Left: Paradise only knows what may have happened to your cousin. There may be much more for this story than the fact that you are “excluded”.

There may have been problems with the pregnancy of your cousin or her baby, which your relatives did not want to share. Please do not start a grind if you have no facts that show otherwise.

The appropriate act, send a little something to that child, along with a supporting message and you will have less regret.

Dear Abby: My youngest son, at the age of 27, has been clear and sober for two years, after surviving Fentanil’s terrible addiction. I helped her to encourage her back in health. It was not easy, but he is alive today.

However, with this shrewdness, a young person is appearing who is critical of him and taking care of his sisters and me.

He finds flaws in all of us that “disgust him”, and for this reason, he has chosen not to engage with us anymore.

He claims he is telling his “truth” and only “right or wrong” exists for him. He has no problem with damaging our feelings as this is “our problem” and he “will no longer take care of the norms of society”.

I come to him from a place of love and acceptance, and I say this all the time. He tells me that I am a deceiver and am living a lie.

I don’t know what to do or say anymore. He is ready to leave our family if we cannot come to a place of “mutual understanding”, which is his way.

I am ready to go away from him because I am tired of his tyrants and sitting everyone. What should I do? – Disappointed mother in Minnesota

Dear Mom: Is it possible that to gain his versatility, your son joined a cult program? His treatment for you and his sisters is neither normal nor acceptable.

If you prefer to save yourself the pain of the heart and end his verbal abuse, you have the right to distance yourself until he is directed.

Dear Abby was written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby on Dearabby.com or Yes Box 69440, Los Angeles, Ca 90069.