Discovering your half of the rest is cheating on you is a deeply traumatic experience-but women are now exposing a joint act men perform that further increases insult to damage.
After performing the final betrayal, the guilty men often go to extreme lengths to cover it, saying detailed lies as an excuse.
But some boys go far away with their false description of the truth, and now the women who have been deceived are laughing the last, transmitting the “strange excuses” they have been told to their spouse.
“” You have gained weight “… I was 7 months pregnant. With his baby,” shared a ex-wife.
“Mine said,” You’re at work and I don’t see you more. “We worked in the same place,” revealed another.
“” You’re just too desperate to pay attention to me. “I had just mistreated our baby,” someone else said.
As the lies seem so visible, let them ask why a pair of culprits would go to it.
But don’t be fooled. Entirely is completely selfish, she told news.com.au.
“The infidelity and injury of someone who cares about you is a lot, very difficult to talk and to FESS,” said Dober, who works at the Melbourne Enrichment Psychology Clinic.
“Men can often create detailed lies to minimize their part in infidelity, maintain their own sense of themselves, try to minimize the damage caused by the betrayal that is being discovered, and many lie because the honest community is very Hard for them.
“Many will also stand out of inaction.”
One of the most shocking details about the viral video, one of the many on the topic currently in Tiktok, is the large volume of culprits displayed by shared “excuses”.
Dober said this is because those who are guilty of injuring others often cannot face the truth about their child.
“Not many people can sit down in the sense that you have hurt someone, that one (or too much) conversations will have to happen, or that their behavior is prepared to be harmful,” she explained.
“It may be difficult to admit that perhaps, in the act of fraud, they do not act in ways that are being advised in the way they would like them, or others, to see them.
“Panic and lie is a short -term relief from this psychic disturbance, and often very useful.”
Indeed, while many of the “excuses” men give are shocking, there are some that are so terrible, they are a funny kind.
“” I forgot to break away with you “is somehow what my ex considered the most reasonable excuse.” a joint.
“Mine told me that” doesn’t count “because he couldn’t finish while thinking of me all the time,” mocked another.
As another simply said, “It came like your bitmoy.”
“I have a separate personality. This was my other personality, Derek,” wrote a frustrated woman.
In a special video, a woman shared the excuse a guy made to cheat her, explaining to him, he said, “I just teleported at her home somewhat.”
But while a funny excuse can be easy to see, Dober said not all lies are so obvious.
“Being able to discover a fiber depends on how talented the person in the lie,” she said.
“Some people are very good at the lie of your face and you will trust them, others have physical stories that can betray them- yet some of these physical stories may also look like anxiety or general stress .
“Some people’s stories may change, but this evidence of a lie while memory is falling.”
One of the most pressing questions, anyone who has ever cheated wants the answer that is not why their partner stayed, is why they did it? Dober said it is complicated.
“People can be involved in infidelity for many reasons, and it has nothing to do with sex,” she told news.com.au.
“They may be angry with their partner and engage in active revenge, they can have low self -esteem and want attention or validity, they may have low investment in their primary relationships or low commitment to Relationships, they may have a desire for the variety, or feel as if their needs are not met in a relationship, and they may also have stressors such as conflict of relationships when they can push them to get involved in this behavior.
“None of these excuses that betray your partner if you both have mutually agreed on monogamy and your partner is not understood to be doing so.”
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