I discovered my ‘friend’ alone in the bathroom with my 6-year-old: ‘I felt sick in my stomach’

A few months of action, I asked my father -in -law of my children while I worked.

I would only do a few hours of work when I got this unpleasant feeling and wanted to get my kids. I don’t know if you would call her mother’s instinct or what, but I just felt like I had to collect them.

When I entered the house of the thousands and asked where my six -year -old daughter was, she accidentally replied, “She’s in the bathroom with *Amanda. They swim in the pool all morning.”

“I felt sick in the stomach”

At first, when my thousands said they were in the bathroom, I was not bored because I assumed that they would still have their swimming clothes. In fact, when I went into the bathroom, I didn’t even know.

As I opened the door, the family friend, who is in her 40s, was standing there with a towel wrapped around her naked body. My daughter, meanwhile, was still in the shower without clothes.

I was amazed immediately. Literally, in essence, surprised.

“What are you doing?” I finally stuck.

“Oh, we just got out of the pool and so we jumped in the shower,” Amanda replied.

I stop there frozen looking at her, then down my daughter. I felt sick in my stomach.

“Come. Heart, time to jump out,” I told my daughter and quickly wrapped her in a towel.

I was so angry and upset, my hands were trembling as I helped him bring him closer. My little girl looked completely at last and was unaware of how I was feeling.

“I would never do a million years this”

After we left, I told my husband about it. He said the friend’s behavior was “a little away”, but he thought I was reacting a lot.

But the more I thought about it, the more angry I became.

I would never ever enter a million years in the shower with someone else’s baby. Nor my nieces.

I asked my two best friends their opinion and they both said the behavior was completely unacceptable.

The fact that this family friend, who I also appreciated as a friend, thought it was good to shower with a naked child, honestly blows my mind.

I don’t think it is a pedophile for a second, but it is still inappropriate and wrong. Too very popular, very intimate.

After the incident, I spoke to my daughter and people asked what had happened. She said they would just be thrown into the shower to rinse after a swim.

I explain to her that her body is her that she has the right to intimacy, and that no one should shower with her. Full stop f —ing. We also talked more about personal boundaries, and about your intestinal confidence if something feels out.

I’ve only seen that family friend once since and it’s very difficult between us. I know that if I appreciate her friendship, I would have to lower it and explain some basic boundaries.

But the fact that I have to show that I really do not know it at all.

* Names have been changed for reasons of intimacy.