Dear Abby: My friend’s husband insists on coming to every shelter

Dear Abby: As I approach the mid -1930s, many friends have been paired and married. How can I manage the friendships in which I am close to a friend, but I don’t like spending time with their new spouse? While they are not very offensive, they are simply not fun to accompany.

Should I slowly withdraw from the relationship over a few years, or can I face my friend on the issue of unwillingness to spend time with their important? It seems abrasive to say, “I don’t like to stay with your husband.” Any advice on how to navigate this sticky situation would be appreciated. – knew them when

Dear they knew them: Women float in these contagious situations joining “girls’ lunches, spa and training days. I do not recommend saying a newlyweds her husband is not a pleasure to be accompanied, because not only will it not be well received, but it is also guaranteed to be hit by their friends list.

Dear Abby: My husband will soon publish his first book. We have both waited for a long time for this moment and we are excited that he will finally have this achievement under his belt.

While I never had any real reception for a possible dedication, I thought I could mention a short mention. On the contrary, the dedication went to someone he did not know in person, and I completely left. His co -author took the opportunity to accept their spouse besides other people, and now I am sad that he would not accept my support.

I’m not sure if I have to say anything about it. If I do it and he changes his dedication, it would not be really from him. If I wait, I will continue to feel unhappy. He is a dedicated man and supports me in everything I do, so this is a big deal just because I feel like he is? What should you do, if anything? – unknown at birth

Dear Unknown: I’m sure your husband had his realities for the dedication of the book as he did. Because this is a great job for you, show the effect Om has had. Communication is important in healthy marriages, and if you fill this, it will continue to get angry.

Dear Abby: Two months ago, I start to see a male friend. He is involved with my close female friend, but she treats her like waste. I’ve woken up myself. I don’t regret to meet her; She deserves to be alone. They have no children. I’m not trying to be foolish for this situation. Do you think I’m a terrible person? – is complicated

Complicated dear: No, but your former former life will be as soon as the news gets it. And if you think she treats her fella like debris, you flood them down – because a load of it is coming your way.

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