Dear Abby: How should I react to when I see the new bay implants of my granddaughter?

Dear Abby: My son just told me his daughter, at the age of 26, is undergoing breast improvement surgery.

My question is, how do I treat it when I see it next, surely in a few months?

It’s not like commenting on a new hair color or hair. Older men who comment on the anatomy of the female, especially that part, are not lived favorably.

As I see it, there are two ways that goes. One, she mentions it to me – maybe it is unlikely to happen. So after it took the operation to make a noticeable change, how should I react?

Two, she does not mention it. Without an introduction to the topic, I’m not sure I have to answer.

Can my silence be perceived as negative or as a lack of approval? I would appreciate your help in formulating a response before it is necessary. – Cold Grandpa in Texas

Dear Grandpa: If your granddaughter mentions it – and she can very well – tell her she looks scary. Look at it in eye When you say it.

If it does not increase the topic, play it delightful and keep your lips immersed.

Dear Abby: For two years, I have been making a relationship with my married neighbor, “Reed”.

Suddenly, his granddaughter split with her boyfriend because he cheated on her, and now Reed has broken her with me – saying he will not happen to be a role model for his children.

I am sorry that his daughter is hurting, but if she had not been shared with her boyfriend, Reed would still want this between us. Please tell me what I have to do to overcome it. – Cut into Florida

Dear Cut: Look from the inside. Consider the reason you started a relationship with someone who was unavailable.

While it may have been fun in the short term, if you would like anything more, it was a sad loss of time.

When Reed saw the pain that his boyfriend’s deception caused her, I suspect he realized how much his behavior could affect his family.

Or, he was tired of sneezing around. By ending this affair, he has both made you a favor. Once you know it, you can continue.

Dear Abby: Keith and I met the internet nearly a year and a half action. We live 400 miles away and have visited each other several times since.

I am a single mother in the mid -1930s and I live near the family. Keith is about the same age and lives very close to my expanded family.

I have recently realized that I can be in love with him. I would like to recount my feelings and transfer where he is if my feelings are mutual.

How can I approach this topic? I’m tired of passing through the motions. I need something good and constant in my life. I don’t always want to ask myself “what if?” – Ready to take a step

Dear ready: Has he ever told you that he is missing after these visits? If he has, it would be an indication that your feelings are mutual.

If he does not, start by telling him how much you enjoyed your visits and missing you HIM

How he answers is important because it can open the door where you want to get your friendship.

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