Dear Abby: Recently he was again linked to a colleague from work. We were friendly, but not really what I would call friends. We got on social media and have lunch several times. The problem is, it has become a very negative, aggressive, angry person. Snapper
He spends our time making family, former colleagues of the former and almost every professional of service she has encountered. She refuses to stop talking about politics even though I have made it clear that I am not happy with her.
The first lunch was bad, but I thought I would give it another blow. The second lunch was worse, and I decided to reach or make plans again. Then she made a comment that made me feel inclined to try to friendly. She said there were not many friends.
Two or three lunches later, I simply Cannot Continue to do it. I am trying to get rid of the negative influences, some of whom are families, and I do not need to continue spending time with this individual. If she arrives again, should I continue to make excuses until she gets alluding, or should I be honest? I am somewhat afraid of her because, seeing the way she made people, I know she will make me with other people we know, and I couldn’t without it. – Wrong in North Carolina
Wrong dear: There is no reason to be uncomfortable for this woman with problems. Start being busy when it contacts you. If she blocks you saying something like that, “If your schedule is too full this month, like for next month?” Make a date with her. If she starts basing others, stop. Smile and say, “Let’s talk about something else. Something pleasant. “Then continue less available for longer extension.
Dear Abby: My wife decides with me, and I adore her for her. I have my challenges. I was involved in a head car with a header 15 years ago and I suffered a number of long -term injuries from it. I can do most of what I love physically, but not everything. I have taken medicines for the remaining brain issues from the collision and I can be angry without much warning.
I have had both family and individual therapy. I exercise, meditate (but not almost as often as it should), take medication to keep me stable and have paranders in variable places for what I have to do and not do.
I buy my wife’s flowers quite regular and I often stay cute. I also take good care of our son with special needs. What other things would you suggest to do to help him know that I adore her? – Lucky guy in Florida
Dear lucky guy: Your wife probably already knows. But if you are apologizing when flying out of the glove, show love and tell her every day how much you love it and how blessed you feel you have it in your life, it will convey the message you want to deliver.
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