She is saying, “I don’t.”
A bride became gobsmacked after her friend, the bride, asked her to pay a heavy fee to be part of the bride’s feast, making the bride not wanting to attend the wedding at all.
The 24-year-old anonymous woman took to Reddit in a sincere deletion after detailing her condition, saying she was “beyond excited and honored” to be a part of the special day for her friend, Megan.
Then, “things took a twist.”
“A few weeks after the proposal, Megan sent me an email by detailing the ‘bride’s package,” the woman wrote in Reddit, people reported.
Expenses included $ 500 for dress, $ 300 for hair and composition, $ 150 minimum for a bride’s gift and a $ 100 deposit for the Bachelorette holiday in a luxury resort.
“And then, to finish it, she asked for an additional $ 50 for” different expenses “, which I still can’t understand,” the bride wrote.
When she faced Meghan about the costs of watering her eyes and expressed her concern that it was “too much money” for her to face, Meghan claimed it was “norm”.
“She said,” I’m just trying to make sure everything is perfect, and these costs are needed, “” Redditor wrote. “She even said,” If you can’t be at my wedding, I understand, but I can’t change plans for everyone else. “”
The discussion made the brides feel “super strange”.
“I’ve always been there for her, but it just feels like she’s using her wedding as an excuse to make her tendencies pay for her dream day,” she said, adding that the bride has not spoken to her since the conversation.
“I understand the wedding can be expensive, but by charging people to be at your wedding, especially your best friend, feel bad for me.”
While some of her friends argued that she just had to cough the money to fix things with the bride, others said she should “stay on earth” and refuse to pay.
Of course torn for what she did, the bride asked Reddit if she would be in a mistake to refuse to participate in Nuptials.
“If you can’t afford it, you can’t afford it. You can just say, I love you and thank you for asking me to be at your wedding, but I will have to refuse second to financial restrictions.
“If she’s really your friend, she will understand, but you may have to let go to happen based on her response.”
Another user called the bride “hungry money”, while someone else said it was “a lot of way to ask a friend”.
“Being a bride is not a subscription service,” a person has a person. “If she wants a fund, she should start a gofundme, not to charge the admission to her wedding.”
“If she is really your BFF, she would realize that what she is looking for from you and the rest of the bride’s party is a lot,” commented another Meghan a “bridezilla”.
“She is asking you and everyone else to pay approximately $ 1,100 to be at her wedding. That’s not a friend.”
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