Dear Abby: I’m married for 27 years. Most of them have been miserable. My husband has been an alcoholic that operates for more than 40 years. I consider his abusive emotional behavior. I hate my house. My children (22, 19 and 17) do not want me to leave it. I live in my bedroom all day by myelf, besides getting to work. He now says he wants to take a pill to stop drinking. Just just another lie. He will never do it. I’m a woman’s shell in 56 and I want to finish it all. I am so miserable that I can’t do another year of that. –– I can’t continue so
Dear cannot: You don’t have to “do” another year of this. Consult a lawyer for a legal division and move out. Tell your children with good sense that you can return when their father can try to leave him drinking. If he takes the medication, once he returns, he can be the smallest emotional abusive. (Do not rely on it.) However, if he fails to follow, appear for divorce.
Dear Abby: I was invited to my granddaughter’s wedding, and we immediately RSVP’D “Yes”. I was also invited by her sister in her bridal shower and responded positively. I have a service dog I take with me everywhere. I advised both parties I was bringing.
The sister told me I was uninvited or could line my service dog out on the porch. Now, a month later, three months after I said at the wedding, I was told that I was uninvited at the wedding because of my service being. Is it expected to give you a wedding gift? I had planned to give my granddaughter my silver silver set. What to do now? – going, not going, in Illinois
Dear going out: Forget about the shower and the wedding gift. If you feel generously prone, send the happy couple a nice card. If your pet is, indeed, a trained service dog to help you if you need it, it was wrong to give up your invitation (s). Your dog would have been fine and would not have caused a distraction.
Dear Abby: My 32-year-old son is not talking to me, his father and sister because I finally refused to give him more money. I have always helped him with his finances as he spent his money stupidly. Nine months have passed since we spoke or seen each other. He has two children, so we have no contact with them, nor.
I want to tell him how foolish he is, but I don’t think I should have apologized. He is jealous of his sister and feels that we do everything for him. We’ve always done exactly the same for both of our children. My daughter rarely borrows money, but if she does, she returns quickly.
Should I wait until my son is missing enough to contact us or reach him? He is very stubborn, and this can continue for years. – sad in the south
Dear sad: Call your spoiled son, with the title. Tell him who loves him, but not to change your attitude about the issue of money. After that, the ball is in his court.
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