Dear Abby: My wife and I went for our annual seven months of action. We were both overweight and told by our relevant doctors that we should make some lifestyle changes to improve our health. Since then, I have made the necessary changes. As a result, I have lost 40 pounds, and all my vital are in a healthy range.
My wife has not made any changes. There has been no weight loss, and she should take medication for some issues. As I have made sacrifices, she has made excuses. I love that expensive, but I’m very frustrated. I was positive and encouraging, but he sees no help.
We are both at an age in which we must take our health seriously. This is not about appearance or appearance; It’s about health. I really want us to have long and healthy life together. If there is any advice you can give, I am open to hear it. – Suitable in Indiana
Dear Fitter: Apart from modeling healthy exercises and dining habits for your wife, there is nothing you can do to force her from the trajectory she is on. Changing one’s lifestyle (or not) is a personal choice. Motivation must come from the inside, and it must be determined to make efforts. Her doctor, not you, should discuss making those changes with her and the reasons for her. Even small changes can make a big different.
Dear Abby: I have a 7-year-old granddaughter, “Emma”. She is beautiful, smart, happy and just wonderful. Her father, my nephew and her mother are no longer together, but they share custody. My nephew since then has been taken along with Baby Mama No. 2 and there are two other children with him.
Emma’s life has not been easier due to fighting and disputes. Her mother is also with another man and has other children. Her mother’s boyfriend is not good with Emma. Im greatson is trying to get her full custody.
Emma is bright and intelligent. I would like to talk to him about independence and not depending on anyone to support him. I know at 7 it is still too young to understand. What is a good era for learning its independence and how to secure it, and instead of “need” a man, is it healthier to be with someone without depending on him? – Its “gee-gee” in Colorado
Dear “Gee-Gee”: This is not a one -time lesson you are trying to convey. It is an eternal process. The first thing to do is to become a role model for Emma. Exhibit it in books and videos for women who are independent, building careers and living on topics rather than dependent on the man. Then learn its self-respect. If you do this, they are the least she will take with her to the magnificent.
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