Dear Abby: I cut my sisters from my life as they showed no remorse for our dying mother

Dear Abby: I have two sisters. Our mother passed away last year after a bad decline. I was her main caretaker and I was with her every day. The other two sisters were not talking to him at all, which he hurt deeply. She had madness, but she still lacked them and would often talk about them. It was everything very sad.

When Mom died, my older sister would not say her farewell. She did not attend the funeral and told everyone they would hear that she was not sad. My little sister arrived – late – for the funeral. Then, they attacked me – screaming, cursed, etc. They became angry about small things, such as the fact that I used the name of my older sister’s girls in a draft of Mom’s necrology.

I have cut them and stopped talking to them and the rest of the family. I don’t want details about my life returning to them, giving them reason to attack me again. The problem is that my whole family is now gone. I’m very sad. Not only did I lose my mother, but everyone else. Should I approach them? – worse than grief in Georgia

Dear worse: I would advise to approach your system, for the reasons you stated. If you want to contact the elongated family, come to the sense that whatever you say it is likely to return to your sisters. Because your brothers and sisters are so uncomfortable, it may make more sense for you to focus your energy on deepening your friendships with others.

Dear Abby: I’ve been friends with “TED” for just over a year. We spend a lot of time together – almost every day. I spend time in his home, and we often go to the park or go out to eat together. Finally I noticed after all this time that he has never sought to become friends on Facebook, though he was hinted at him several times.

Yesterday, we both were some cups of Sangria when he started showing me photos of his Facebook page. When I asked him why we were friends on Facebook, he changed the topic. When I told him that it hurts my feelings that he did not want to be friends on Facebook, he was angry and would not accept my question. The evening ended after that.

This is not the first time I have expressed concern about something, and it is not the first time he has refused to accept my feelings for something like that. What should I do? – Limited shock in New Jersey

Dear Limited Friend: I don’t know why Ted prefers to hide his content on Facebook nor you. People are eligible for some intimacy. If his only views of his FB are what he shares with you on his phone, there may be images there he prefers not to see. This would also explain why he is convinced not to discuss it. What you need to do now is crucial how important this issue is for you and act accordingly.

Dear Abby was written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at http://www.dearabby.com or Yes Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.