Comes sexually as a 21st century girl is a teasing task.
If sex and love are not enough confusing, girls today have to deal with the rampant connection culture, hellscape of apps for meetings and an increasingly united society.
This is where Louise Perry would like to go inside and provide help. In her book “A New Guide to Sex in the 21st Century” Perry speaks directly with 15-17-year-old girls about why she believes that progressive feminism is avoiding them.
“The main thing I removed from the writing process is how poorly we served young people as a culture,” Perry Post told.
She hopes that her book will help young women today avoid the mistakes of their millennia predictors, many of whom now regret their 20s by meeting by chance and sleeping around.
“I’m not preaching abstinence myself,” Perry explained. “I’m actually saying, honestly, you’ll be happy in retrospect to simply spend that part of the narrative of progressive life.
“It’s not a mandatory adventure you have to go through twenties. You just can’t do, and you would actually live a happy life for it.”
The book, OUT March 10, is a teenage adaptation of Perry’s previous book “The Satan Against Sexual Revolution”, from popular demand from desperate parents to receive her message through their daughters.
“[Young women] Mothers’ instructions have been denied, not because their current mothers are not ready to offer it, but modern feminism has encouraged them not to listen [to them]”She writes.
Some cultural references have been adapted for the age group, for example Perry explains who sexy icons Marilyn Monroe and Hugh Hefner are for a teenage audience that may not really be known.
The language in this updated version is also simplified and some graphic details about sex are toned.
But it still comes up with a heavy dose of reality controls, such as: “While the 1950s’ home angel ‘hid her wild boar, the modern angel of the bedroom’ hides her pubic hair.
“She claims for orgasm, claims to like anal sex and claims not to disturb when the arrangement of ‘friends with benefits’ causes her pain.”
Perry’s book is a brutally sincere evistant of a bond culture that lets young people feel talented and young women feel used.
“I talk to young women, and the only sex they have ever had was casual sex,” she told the post.
“They never had a proper girlfriend. This was unheard of for two decades, but now it seems to be widespread. “
Perry argues in her book that the Culture of League has tightened women in an unsatisfactory state: “The evidence does not reveal a generation of women who discover in sexual liberation – on the contrary, many women seem to have uncomfortable and upset sex with a sense of obligation.”
Her advice: “Have sex with a man only if you think he would make a good father for your children. This is not because you necessarily intend to have children with him, but because this is a good rule to decide if he is worthy of your faith.
Perry argues that, although it is in favor of birth control, it had the cultural side effect of removing sex: “The pill offers this illusion of sex to be a leisure activity. But just because you are getting a contraceptive pill does not mean that you are not exciting sex affected. “
While her message is certainly a social conservative, Perry points out that her book is completely secular and non-partisan in its reasoning.
“I wrote the original book aiming to read from me at the age of 20, when I was progressive and I would not be acceptable to a conservative or religious argument,” she explained. “It is meant to convince people who are not with the program.”
She is hoping to meet progressive teenagers who are likely to buy, hook, line and sink of feminist rhetoric: “Teens simply remove these ideological things without even realizing it is what it is.”
The most important message with which you hopes readers to leave is that “positive sex feminism” is “essentially afford”.
“Women want to tell those who fantasize from this Tinder date was actually good for me,” she said. “They are the soothing feelings of the discomfort created by a sex culture, which is actually not good for women.”
Perry is right that a generation of young women is growing knowing nothing but a bond culture that if most college girls gather in bed, rather than finding fulfilling relationships they want.
More and more young girls are awakening the idea that something is wrong with our sex culture, but they are being seduced by the wrong messages that fall from regressive, reactionary tendencies such as trading women and loved ones at home.
Girls need an honest voice of reason they tell them as it is, and empowers them to seek respect for themselves and their bodies in an era of sexual anarchy. With “a new guide to sex in the 21st century”, Perry seems to be ready to do it.
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