Dear Abby: I found my husband’s nuds – with another woman

Dear Abby: I’m married for 52 years. As I was looking for a tax document, I found an envelope that had a note written on the outside. She said, “If something happens to me, please destroy this because I don’t want to hurt anyone.” I opened the envelope and found nude pictures of my husband and another woman taken 30 years ago.

When I faced my husband, he said a long act happened and it is my fault for opening the envelope. I’ve never received an apology and I don’t want to be intimate with it anymore. I need tips on how to spend this. – Photo finished in Georgia

Dear Photographic Completed: That your husband would not offer an apology only adds insult to damage. What a fool. He left a “time bomb” and did not have enough sense in common to consider what would happen if, after his death, you or your children would be lit through his souvenirs. Because you want to go through this, it’s time to consult a licensed marriage and family therapist. If your husband refuses to go with you, go alone – or pray for amnesia.

Dear Abby: I was out for dinner this evening. One father and his two sons (10 and 6) were sitting at the table near Tona. As soon as they sat down, the father who performed the 10-year-old performance at a sports event. He called it “worthless” and a “sh-t dog piece”. Continued throughout the meal.

I felt bad about the boy and was terrified of how his father was treating him. I wanted to take my father aside, but I don’t know if it would make him abuse his son even more. Advice what advice do you have for situations like this? – Sitting in Colorado

Dear Sitting by: Controd Kon -Productive when parents were heavily involved in the sports activities of their children. Clearly, the public who was shaking this father was giving the boy was not a useful encouragement. That said, you were wise to remain silent about the reason you stated. If you had tied up to intervene, it would have shamed the abuser and could have made things worse for the boy.

Dear Abby: “Debbie” and I have known each other for 15 years. Our children grew up together, and we have participated in many activities together. She helped me through a difficult divorce and has always been there for me.

Debbie decided that about a year of action that we could no longer be friends because of our different political views. She sent a text from blue saying it. I was destroyed. I have tried to contact her but she has blocked my number.

In all years Debbie and I have known each other, we never discuss politics. Since she blocked my number, I’ve thought about writing her or falling near her home to see if we could spend that. What do you think I should do, if anything? – Lost my best friend

Dear Lost: I’m sorry for your loss. What I think is that the other measure should be Debbie. What she did was cruel. If you do not want to judge more judgment and rejection, keep your distance.

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