“Harmless flirtation” (51%), talking to an ex (60%) and seeing porn (23%) can make or disrupt a relationship, according to new research.
A study of 2,000 active sexual adults explored the different “bedroom boundaries” they have, revealing that many considerations such as “fraud” in a relationship.
Those who place high porn on their list of suspicious acts have strong feelings: 54% of these answers think it should be “forbidden” when a relationship becomes serious.
What is acceptable? The poll conducted by Talker Research in partnership with Lelo revealed that a majority agrees that erotic reading (79%), masturbation or use of sex toys (76%), and dancing with someone else (66%) are all straight games.
They would become confrontational when the potential for dishonesty reset their heads: 37% would call their partner if they hide their phone password or randomly flirted with someone (41%).
The answers are also sensitive when the past is involved, with half saying they will face their partner to have pictures with an ex on their phone or social media (62%).
However, being friends with an ex is still okay with a third of the respondents, with 30% saying they would keep a look in the situation and will only be involved if something was suspicious.
Thirty -six percent would also pay attention to a close relationship between their partner and a associate without facing it.
On the other hand, Americans are not so likely to feel jealous if their partner dances with someone else (32%), let someone buy them a drink (31%) or read erotic (47%).
“Intimacy is a personal journey, and each individual has its own boundaries,” said Luke Matinovic, leading marketing official in Lelo. “Be it single, in a relationship, or somewhere in the middle, exploiting together requires mutual openness and respect. Honest conversations about desires and borders unlock new experiences, helping partners build deeper confidence and bonds. When judgment is removed, both partners feel empowered to explore and discover new pleasures, creating space for knee intimacy and common growth. “
While most of those in a relationship are sure that their partner knows about their romantic or sexual boundaries (89%), one in the seven would hesitate to be honest with them if they did something that concerned them.
And while three -quarters of all Americans claim to be satisfied with their live sex (77%), only 30% are “always” satisfied during intimacy.
More than half of the respondents admit that they were dishonest or went without talking about something that secretly disturbed them with a partner (53%) because they did not want to bother them (39%) or feared the reaction of them (33 %).
Talking about what they like in bed is never easy to have, but one in six is looking forward to talking about it immediately, compared to the average person who thinks that conversation should come after four rounds of intimacy.
Some of the “contested” acts that can be poured during pillow conversations are their desires to masturbate or use sex toys (38%), explore new kinks (25%), or engage in intimacy with multiple partners ( 11%).
However, from those who are interesting to something considered “controversial” and in relationships, one in six admits that their partner does not know they are interested in that activity.
“Honesty is the foundation of true intimacy and the key to deeper connections,” Matinovic said. “Every person’s boundaries and desires are unique, and true fulfillment comes from open conversations about needs and boundaries. Avoiding these discussions can create distance, but by embracing honesty and an open mind, promotes understanding and deepening the connection, allowing both partners to feel really first and listening. “
Survey Methodology:
Talker’s research surveyed 2,000 active sexual Americans; The survey was ordered by Lelo and was administered and carried out online by Talker Research between February. 5 and February. 11, 2025.
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