Dear Abby: My husband has been added to social media – and I’m crazy

Dear Abby: My husband and I have very different access to social media; He’s everything, and I’m all out. I don’t “do” the internet. I don’t have Facebook, Instagram, X, Snapchat and whatever else people use these days. I left the use of social media five years ago when I realized how much it was contributing to my stress. Leaving him behind has helped me extremely a lot.

My willing is that my husband is all day long, every day and he “condemns”, which can do any bad mood that he is in worse. This is quite disappointing, but my real complaint is that he is constantly trying to include me. He wants to show me posts or read them about me and expects me to participate in his increasingly worse condition. How can I make it stop? I’ve told him before I don’t want to hear it and, if I didn’t, I have a myelf account. – Disappeared in Michigan

Unfilled dear: The next time your husband do this, ask if you realize how badly affects you. Tell him that he was not accompanied by social media because you realized that it was not good for you emotionally or physically. . Then do it.

Dear Abby: My brother and his wife have been married for 22 years. He has always been Breadwinner. She stayed home with their three children, which made it possible for them to raise a family. He followed his career, which included many trips. My sister -in -law and I had a heart in the heart when they first got married if this was a good adjustment because he left her vulnerable, but she was sure my brother saw her as an equal partner. It turns out that it was wrong.

Their marriage has become shaky, and he now says he will “drunk” if divorced because his wife will receive his “money”. She raised their children and ran the house without help, and now he is saying that none of this was important. Any judge would give her alimony, but he is full of resentment, and is making the situation more difficult.

I have tried to talk to my brother; He accuses me of being on her side. They are in therapy, but he is being so implicit that I can barely see him now. How can I help my brother realize that she did a lot of the job that makes it possible for him to have his job? – Sister sees it clearly

Dear sister: Let your brother’s lawyer and family law judge explain the facts of life for your brother. He is full of anger and greed now and does not think rationally. You will not win the dispute you are having with it, so for your sake, come back. I can only offer my sympathy for your sister -in -law.

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