Dear Abby: How can I make my husband junkie adrenaline leave me alone?

Dear Abby: My husband is an adrenaline jungle that likes high speed and fast cars. I’m the opposite. I hate driving in fast cars, on the roller coasts or anything related to adrenaline. I’ve explained many times that I don’t like to go quickly in his super fast car, however he continues to ask me to go with him. I’ll ever do it, but I hate it.

If I refuse to accompany him, he feels rejected. I have tried to say it beautifully, but he continues to insist on going up with fast disks with him. I don’t know what to do anymore. Please help. – more slowly in the UK

Dear more slowly: You have already expressed your feelings. Your husband has chosen to ignore them. If you prefer not to ride with your spouse Junkie adrenaline while he puts the pedal on the metal … don’t go! If he is taken because you are terrified, the problem is his. Stop doing it yourself.

Dear Abby: My husband and I ate dinner with some friends, a married couple. After dinner, we left the restaurant a few minutes away and as we were walking in our car, I told my husband that the woman was “really intensely and sometimes too much to be treated.” I didn’t realize that they were still through the ear. My husband stressed that they may have heard me, but I’m not sure. Can I do anything? I do not want to apologize if she did not notice or received insult. But it is really intensely and can be angry. – Oops! In Oregon

Dear Oops!: Cross your fingers and wait out. You will know if you owe her an apology the next time you or your husband try to invite them. If you are lucky, she didn’t hear you. Next time, wait until you are safely in your car to strip your claws, pussycat.

Dear Abby: I have to live with someone because I’m on the verge of being homeless. I have been in homeless shelters, and I have lived as well, but I cannot do it again because it makes my anxiety and depression act.

I just started talking to this guy. We started to like each other, but we didn’t meet in person, and are wondering if you think I could move with that guy after a month? – Need shelter in Arizona

Dear needs shelter: No, I don’t! It would be a big mistake to move with anyone you have known for just a month. If you are thinking of staying in a shelter until you can get on foot and be independent makes your anxiety and depression act, it would be nothing compared to living with a stranger who may be abusive. As you stated, you have not met this person yet. A game like this is very dangerous, and I do not recommend it.

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