Dear Abby: I found a young lady after my wife died with disabilities – my boys think I should die alone

Dear Abby: My wife died for 47 years 16 months ago after living with disabilities for many years. I took care of it to the end and I loved it with all my heart. Nine months after her passing, I got involved with another woman at my age.

I have two sounds, 43 and 46. My little boy and my contemporaries are happy to have found someone to share my life. Being alone was not easy for me. However, my eldest son, who has a wife and child, is no longer talking to me and withdrew to a public event when I mentioned the name of my daughters. He seems to think that I should only be the rest of my life.

I feel a text after his wild behavior, saying that I would always love him, but until he accepts the fact that I have a young lady in my life, I don’t consider my son anymore. Maybe I have reacted a lot. I haven’t heard of him or have not seen my grandchildren in two months.

I know about other widows who have had the same problem. I find it difficult to believe that our children can be so unstable. I understand that many people who lose their love for their lives are not interested in finding another, but I don’t want to speak the rest of my life. Am I wrong? Should I apologize from my sound? – happy to find someone

Happy dear: You may have been very harsh when you said what you did to your son, but he was doing off the line when he caused a scene in mentioning your friend’s friend. You love and take care of his mother as long as she was on this earth. You have been a great man and partner and you do not owe anyone an apology that you want to live your life to the fullest. Please celebrate it with those who are mature enough to understand this.

Dear Abby: I have been friendly with “buy” for 20 years. During this time, I brought her to the appointments of doctors and have dinner for her and her family after her mother and stepfather died. When I went on vacation with my daughter, Bler said she would like to come together, but I didn’t have money, so I paid for her. (She never participated to pay me again.) On another occasion, Bler insisted on coming to my house with her adult kids to use my pool, though I asked her not because my son was at home with pneumonia.

When my mother died a few months ago, I called the purchase after the funeral overseas. She promised to call me again, but didn’t call for two months. When I told her I was disappointed in her, she replied that she feels bad. But she has done such things as many times as I feel used. I don’t want to be friends with her anymore, but she keeps calling me and doesn’t know what to do. Any advice for a one -sided friendship I can’t see? – Enough already in Illinois

Dear enough: Get a page from the buyer’s game book. When she calls or texts, take a long time to answer. When she wants to gather, be very busy. If she asks you if there is any reason for the change in your behavior, tell her the truth As you said.

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