I shamed my husband – people think I’m ‘cruel’ but I’m not wrong

A woman has admitted she shamed her husband, but she thinks she was completely justified.

The conflict began with what should have been a simple dinner discussion.

“Last night, I suggested to my husband that we run out of leftovers in the fridge as we had a lot of food that needed to be eaten,” she shared.

But her husband had another suggestion.

“He told me I was bad”

“He immediately countered with, ‘Wouldn’t it be better to get nachos?'” I shook my head and firmly said, “No,” she explained.

At this point, things took a nasty turn.

“He then sighed dramatically, as if I had crushed his dreams, and declared, ‘You don’t feed me.’

“You wouldn’t be overweight if I didn’t feed you,” she replied.

As soon as the words came out, the tone of the conversation changed dramatically.

“He told me I was mean and that my comment was unsolicited,” she said.

However, she defended her harsh reaction.

“I stood my ground and explained that I only said it because I felt offended by his original remark,” she reasoned.

“needlessly means”

Feeling conflicted about the exchange, she took to Reddit to question whether she had crossed the line or if her reaction was reasonable.

The answers were mixed.

“You suck at your answer unnecessarily. Do you two like each other? – asked a commenter.

“You said it’s cruel,” argued another.

A third added: “I definitely think you’ve gone about it the wrong way.”

However, others came to her defense.

“‘You don’t feed me’ should never come out of a grown man’s mouth,” one comment defended.

“She did not shame her body. She pointed out that it really feeds her ungrateful ass. Which apparently is her job according to him”, emphasized another.

The woman says the argument likely stems from a deeper issue: feeling unappreciated in her relationship.

“This isn’t the first time I’ve felt unappreciated,” she said.

She expressed frustration at the imbalance in their relationship.

“During the holidays, my days were consumed by taking him out to eat or cooking for him, making sure he had food he liked,” she lamented.

“It feels exhausting to put in so much effort, only to be told I’m not doing enough.”