An accountant turned sex worker has doubled down on her comments that married men who have sex with her are not ‘cheats’.
Katija Cortez, from Sydney, Australia, went viral earlier this year when she claimed that married men who sleep with her aren’t cheating, and that’s something she still strongly believes.
“Men in particular are better at separating sex from love. It’s not the same as a relationship, she told news.com.au.
She said that married men paying for her services is completely different from actively seeking a relationship.
Cortez said there are no dinners, sleepovers or text messages. It’s just sex.
“They are paying us to leave,” she said.
“Jobs are emotional. Even if they’re not emotional on the guy’s side, it’s probably emotional on the woman’s side.
She said she wasn’t there to steal someone’s husband, she was just there to do a job and go home.
Cortez said she’s also had couples book it — with women often leading the way.
She has also heard of women booking sex workers for their husbands but not being part of the meeting.
However, she herself has not had this experience.
However, people had a big backlash to Cortez’s claims of booking sex workers that didn’t count as fraud.
“In this case it’s a business transaction nothing else, if the person buying her services is married they have to deal with it is the one cheating on their partner,” said one person.
Another added: “You don’t cheat, but those married men do.”
“It may not be an emotional issue, but it’s still cheating,” another social media user added.
One commented: “It’s your business, men are wrong.”
“Think it’s not a scam? Ask the customer’s wife. Take one look at the devastation on her face and you’ll soon understand,” said one social media user.
Another said: “It’s not cheating, for men it’s just a different meal that we need every now and then. No emotions.â€
Cortez said men just don’t see sex as cheating — so say all of her clients.
“Of course in front of people, they will say it’s a scam. But behind closed doors they think something completely different,” she said.
“It is women who think they are cheating. Sex is very emotional for many women.â€
She said that men and women should separate sex from emotions.
“Going and buying a product or service is not anti-feminist. It’s still a service at the end of the day. “Some people just have a hard time distinguishing what it is,” she said.
She said that just because there are some people who don’t like it, that doesn’t mean it applies as a general rule.
She compared it to politics. Believing that one side is better than the other is opinion, not fact.
“If everyone thought that, I wouldn’t have a job. But obviously that’s not what people think. Sex workers are making more money than ever,” she said.
Cortez noted that if someone — whether a man or a woman — is looking elsewhere for sex, people should look within.
Do men do enough to make their partners want sex? So do their sexual desires match? Do women cut off sex? These were all concepts that Cortez pointed out.
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